Originally the operation
was thought to take about two hours but finished up taking four. The
surgeon indicated to Darrel that the operation was successful and that they had
no problems and Jules came through it well. She looked very peaceful when
we saw her back in the ICU.
The ICU is a sterile environment and
they don't allow flowers. So any of you who wish to send flowers please
hold off until she is in the spinal ward.
For you to understand the nature of
Julies injury there is some information here http://www.disabled-world.com/artman/publish/spine_picture.shtml and
here http://www.apparelyzed.com/broken-neck.html and
here http://www.apparelyzed.com/quadriplegia-quadriplegic.html
We continue to be hopeful of some
recovery but understand that it is likely to be a long process and that Jules
will need all our support over the coming months. We are awaiting
approval on the rental of an apartment at Kangaroo Point a few kms from the
hospital and are planning that at least two family members will be in Brisbane
at all times. Darrel is family.
Regarding visiting, the ICU has a
policy of no visitation between 8AM and 11AM and the hospital is closed to the
public after 8:30PM in the evening. Julie will welcome short visits from
friends. A friend of hers who suffered from spinal injuries some years
back has provided us with a schedule of do's and don'ts for visitors
Things
that helped :
· Positive smiling
supportive faces
· Having personal things
around you ie pictures, favourite plant etc...
· I had my best mate
bring me in Playstation 2, I hadn’t played with a gaming console for 6 years +
· TV and Videos, books,
laptop, email access, people to play cards with ... (if Julie is able to
communicate, maybe someone can be her puppet and play scrabble on her behalf)
again might be too soon for this!
· Knowing there was a
possibility in 6 months to get out of bed and into a wheel chair and get
discharged from hospital (took me 3 months, I was keen as and determined to get
out)
Things
that depressed and frustrated :
· Peoples pity after a
while
· Sad faces or worry and
depressed looks
· Not being able to
leave cell (room) ... had a nurse wheel my bed outside twice, this was HEAVEN!!
Could you please copy any replies to Val at val@brice-eng.com.au
Kind regards Val, Norm, Kylie and Darrel
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