Saturday, 31 March 2012

31/03/12

Darrel was first to visit Jules today, I dropped him off while Trish and I went to Sam's Seafood in Hamitlon to get some of Jules favourite foods.  We left with some prawns, large bugs and a huge mud crab 1.9kg in weight.  Back to the apartment to prepare a yummy seafood salad.  Jules was amazed it looked so much better than the sandwich the hospital provided.  She tucked into it with great relish and ate a decent serving which left some for dinner for her to share with Darrel.

 It was pretty much the usual routine yesterday shower, wash hair, physio eat, drink, being turned by the wardies, speaking valve, off ventilator, on ventilator, check email, scan newspapers.  It is a very busy routine and before we know it it is eight o'clock.  Jules and Darrel ate dinner together and then watched a movie before he left about 9:45PM

 I can see Jules strength increasing each day.  Darrel and I did a couple of sessions of physio with Jules on her biceps and triceps, I am certain there is an improvement in strength from the yesterday.  It is hard work for Jules requiring intense concentration as her brain wills her nerves to do their stuff.  We will continue with physio today.

 Jules is very happy to welcome visitors and quite animated when she can chat with the speaking valve, though it is quite tiring for her.  She is very grateful for the cosmetics that friends have sent and we are using them to keep her looking good, she loves the attention and contact when they are applied.  If she will agree we will get a before and after photo to include tomorrow.

 Clinically there is not much to report which is good, she is not in pain or on any pain medication except for some oxycodeine to relieve the pain when the tracheostomy dressing is changed daily, and some tamezepan to help her sleep.

Julies accident demonstrates to us all that we have no idea what life has in store for us; it can change in a heartbeat.  Don't look back or dwell in the past, nothing is served by having regrets and asking what if .  Look forward not back, and be optimistic and positive.  We all have latent abilities and talents we haven't even dreamed of.  It takes a challenge to make us look inside ourselves and find the strength repair the damage done and to find and maximise these latent abilities.  Julies strength of spirit is an inspiration to us all.  Life is good.

Only a short report today, but of positive progress.

 Kind regards Norm




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